[[EDITOR'S NOTE: This post is part of our Guest Writers series. At Deconstruction Doulas, we seek to present many survivor voices with many perspectives on the issues that we confront: spiritual abuse, patriarchy, high-control religion, deconstruction, deconversion, and everything that lives 'downstream' from these things. The content found in posts made by guest writers are not the opinions of the Deconstruction Doulas. You may find some survivors’ opinions and perspectives