"Having a safe place to ask questions that are shunned in church, to be real and actually struggle with some ideas that I was raised with, in an engaged and loving community is something I have not experienced before. Having a space dedicated to learning and healing together in community even though there is no 'end goal' has been so life-giving for me."

"[The Deconstruction Doula] has created an online community that is caring, compassionate, safe, and welcoming. Being able to connect with people who have shared experiences across the country/world and provide support for each other has been so healing."

"[It] has become my little haven on the internet, where it's safe to be my real, weird, neurodivergent, overthinking, still-deconstructing-and-reconstructing self. It's a community where people understand trauma and abuse and consistently respond with kindness, even when there's disagreement."

"It’s people holding space for one another, sharing anything from big moments & struggles to silly thoughts that you’re free to say out loud. It’s no shaming or judgment. It’s not a one size fits all box. It’s being able to have different opinions, be an individual, be right where you are. It’s being a fly on the wall watching beautiful conversations play out or entering into those conversations if you so choose. But most importantly it’s a safe place, a feeling of belonging that many of us so desperately need in our journey of healing."